The Art Of A Good Marriage

The Art Of A good Marriage

Happiness in marriage is not something that just happens.
A good marriage must be created.
In marriage the little things are the big things.
It is never being too old to hold hands.
It is remembering to say "I love you" at least once a day.It is never going to sleep angry.
It is at no time taking the other for granted;the courtship should not endwith the honeymoon,
it should continue through the years.
It is having a mutual sense of values and common objectives.
It is standing together facing the world.
It is forming a circle of love that gathers the whole family.
It is doing things for each other,
not in the attitude of duty or sacrifice,but in the spirit of joy.
It is speaking words of appreciationand demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways.
It is not looking for perfection in each other.
It is cultivating flexibility, patience,understanding and a sense of humour.
It is having the capacity to forgive and forget.
It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow old.
It is a common search for the good and the beautiful.
It is establishing a relationship in which the independence is equal,
dependence is mutual and the obligation is reciprocal.
It is not only marrying the right partner, it is being the right partner





I know life as we know it is not perfect. We don’t get everything we want when or how we want it. Sad to say dili man ko swerte sa akong "love life" but hopefully who knows I will find him soon and then I will apply this "The Art of a good marriage"But still I'm lucky because I have a family who love us through all this time and 'til forever.drama!hehehe