Sunday, March 30, 2008

Playing is prenting


Last March 28 and 29 it was a day two day seminar , one of my friend inviting me to attend a for a seminar about parenting . I learned a lot , what I'm trying to say is that we have to play with our children with their business and concern meaning we will sometime act like a child too... What;s childhood like without play? Parents says "unimaginable" Indeed , play is the child's "work". right? We parents should know; we were children once, and part of what we are now was shaped by the kinds of games we played when we were young. Have you not noticed that some of the kids in the new generation they played different as what we have played before or what we have. They don't want to play out side because they more wants to play indoor games like play station or online game in the PC. We have to avoid that sometime. Play occupies a vital role in the child's development in there area: Balance and coordination through running, kicking , throwing balls and other physical activities.By playing they get along with others, and control their bodies while expand their minds and their talents and creativity. If your children hook up with that online games , play station and PSP etc.. they will not try to developing their physical growth. And how about your relationship with your children , the bonding. In that kind of games they can play with their online playmates "cyber friends".

Relationship skills and self-control: through sharing and taking turns at play. Moreover , play helps children: Just learn how to do things, express their feelings and that will teach them how to gain confidence become stronger. Because we parents we loved to helps our children to learn and develop well. That's why my son Lorenz I encourage him to play outdoor games with his friends not into the PC , maybe soon I will let him , but at his age today not now!

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