Saturday, January 12, 2008

Chance or Choice?

CHANCE OR CHOICE?

When we meet the right person to love,
when we are at the right place at the
right time, that's CHANCE.

When you meet someone you're attracted
to, that's not a choice. That's CHANCE.

Being caught up in a moment ( i like
this, and there are a lot of couples who
get together because of this) is not a
choice. That's also a CHANCE.

The difference is what happens
afterwards. Will you take that
infatuation, that crush, that
mind-blowing attraction to the next
level? That's when all sanity goes
back, you sit down and contemplate
whether you want to make this into a
concrete relationship or just a fling.

If you decide to love a person, even
with his faults, that's not a chance.
That's CHOICE.

When you decide to be with a person, no
matter what, that's CHOICE.

Even if you know there are many people
out there who are more attractive,
smarter and richer than your mate and
yet you decide to love your mate just
the same, that's CHOICE.

Infatuation, crushes and attraction come
to us by chance. But true love that
lasts is truly a choice. A CHOICE that
we make.

Regarding soulmates, I believe that
soulmates exist, that there is truly
somone made for you. But it's still up
to you to make the choice if you're
going to do something about it or not.

We may meet our soulmates by CHANCE, but
loving and staying with our soulmate is
still a CHOICE we have to make.



In life we have the freedom to choice and of course we have the chance! Just follow what you have deep inside your heart. But let your mind over your heart. In this world nobody’s perfect. We all experience some trials. Be love and always full in love


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